Hi
I have been a lurker for while and I wonder if anyone can help.
I have always been a heavy drinker since teenage years. I got together with my wife eight years ago and in that time I have five big benders that have caused trouble with our relationship.
Nowadays I tend to be a bit more sensible but I will drink a lot at the weekend. Usually 4 strong alcohol bitters on a Friday and a bottle of wine on Saturday and Sunday evening. I then tend to raid the spirits cabinet when my wife is away and often have to top t up when she is not home.
I am always able to function without a hangover the next morning and normally she is not aware. But we are trying for children and I know it is wrong. Am I an addict or is this wrong?
I can go weeks as well without a problem and its not been years since I have upset wife.
Thank you for your comments in advance.